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Okay lets say you knew this girl was fourteen dating a sixteen year old boy, if you found out that she (she's now fifteen) let him finger her, gave him a hj and a bj, would you judge her?? they dated for seven months. I think you can see that I'm the girl... haha

In my personal opinion I think she is way too young for this kind of physical relationship. Also, because the boy is a bit older, I would wonder if he had anything to do with pressuring her into this, or perhaps she participated in this behavior because "everyone else is doing it."

And not to blow it out of proportion, but its possible to get STD's from this kind of behavior, and if I hear of someone getting an STD younger than 18, my immediate response is what has that she done to her life, and where in the world were her parents? Just something to think about.

MAK, 19

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(Rating: 5) Hahaha. where were my parents... funny. Thanks for the input. (No worries, STDs won't be a problem)
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