Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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Hello 14 f PLEASE ANSWER SOON...its really important nd i dont have much time :/
Well tomorrow I might be seeing my ex, and this ex made me miserable a traumatizing experience for me. Now he's always at my towns city pool every day in the summer..im going there with my cousins, my aunt and my grandmother. Every time I go, with my best friend or anyone I get so nervous and sick to my stomach because I have bad memories there. How should I face him, because I really despise this guy, he doesn't like me much..so I don't know what to do..sense my boy friend won't be with me. My friend says to show off what he's missing. hahah >.> Seriously though what should i do? please reply soon..i only have today.. (link)
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Hello, I honestly think your friends advice was right, I think you should deifnitley flaunt and show off what he is missing... a guy always wants what he cant have:)..I think thatis as far as you should go though.If you have such negative feelings toward him and he emotionally hurt you I dont think you should give him the time of day. I suggest no eye contact and there is no need to approach or talk to him because there is not much to say. He is in the past and should stay there, talking to him will only bring up those bad memories even more and upset you. If he comes up to you,which he may not since you metnioned that he doesnt like you much. But if he does you should be very short with him and not engage in conversation with him, because really the only thing you probably want to hear from him is an apology for hurting you as to gain some sort of closure. However, if there is no apology, there is no need to talk to him, just try to pretend like he is not there and enjoy your family, he is no longer apart of your life and it should stay that way. You dont want someone who brings negativity to your life, it will only bring you down. So try to forget about him and enjoy your day at the pool. Hope this helped, if you have any specific questions you can send me a private message if you would like, goodluck with everything!..Everything will turn out fine, no worries :)
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