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Alright, my friends like this kid and they wanted to find out who was on his shirt one day. They were to nervous to text him from their phones, so they texted him from mine. They were talking to him about God knows what and at the end they gave my back my phone and told him that they were right, that he is cute. Making it sound like it was coming from me. He replied "ha. thanks." Seems not to interested, eh? That's what I thought until school spanning over the next few days. One day this boy was late to lunch and he saw that I am late as well, we basically had eye sex (staring into each other's eyes for a really long time). Then I walked into the hall and opened the caf door, him right behind me. This happened the next day, again. It's just strange to me because usually when I walk into the caf he is already out of the lunch line with his food. Then another sign is, I walked by his locker today after lunch and as soon as I walked by he quick shut his locker and started walking the same way I was, but we didn't talk. We've never talked face to face before. The text convo was the first talking between us when it wasn't even me.. So, is he interested? If so, why? and what do I do? Text him for another random reason? I'm not one to just walk up and start talking to to a cute boy so don't say that. Thanks!

Hey there,
The first thing to do, would be to ask your friends what they texted him. Once you know, tell them how it wasn't nice of them to use your phone. Then, talk to the guy about what 'you' said in text messages (pull him to the side or have him alone). I know its hard, but it is the only way you will ever know what he is thinking about what was said or how he feels about you. It obviously seems as if he likes you, but maybe he just wants to see how you feel about it first before he makes a move. If he is interested, it could be because of what your friends texted to him or it could be because he liked you anyway and didn't want to say anything (age does not matter). If you don't want to talk to him in person, then do text him yourself. It is an easier way to talk to a guy then to try and confront what happened in person.

Maybe you don't want him to know they were the ones texting him... it may be nice knowing he likes you. Definately find out what your friends said to him, then have a convo with him about it. It will lighten up the 'problem' and you may become closer to him ;) Gather up the courage and go for it girl

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