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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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I dated the guy for few months and we are really like a couple in-love. He calls me everyday, we go out often. He said i have a special place in his heart. I cannot say we were in a relationship because he never said he loves me. Unexpectedly i got pregnant, he said he is not yet ready for me but he loves to have the baby and he will be responsible. He was very supportive during first few months of my pregnancy then he got cold, fewer phone calls until none at all and we don't go out anymore. I asked him what is the problem, he said some issues about him self, i asked if we can talk about it, he just asked for time. We did not communicate for few weeks, i gave him space then I recieve 2 easter greeting text message from him the other one is not for me but for his ex-girlfriend's mother. Honestly my response is not good i told him to get out of my life coz i felt he still loves his ex thats why he ignores me. He said sorry through text and never called me few days after due to depression i deleted him in my ym and blocked him in my mobile. I decided not to have communication for a while because I am so hurt and i don't want to say more odd things. It has gone for more than a month now. I sent him text message the other day and offline messages and no response. Will I let go? (link)
Obviously he isnt be responsible so theres no need to have him around you need a guy who is going to be there for you and your child and honestly he doesnt seem like the type to be by your side so let him go just forget him and ignore him your better off alone then with a guy who is only going to hurt you more in the long run just stay happy have your baby and just wait one day the right guy will come around and you will be happy about the decision you made to let this guy go. Good luck :D


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I'm having difficuty emotionally maybe because of my hormonal imbalances im on my 6th month now few months to go. And because I though we're on both at the right age to be responsible im 30 and he is 40 we're both single. I'm gonna take good care of our child and give all the love i can give. Thank you so much, very uplifting. God Bless You =)




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