Member Since: April 22, 2010
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Last Update: April 30, 2010
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My friend was in rehab for a few months and I was not allowed to have any contact with her. So, in that tine frame, I kind of have a new best friend. I got really close to this one girl, and she's probably a better bestie then theo ther ever was. My old bff was secretive, a liar, and ha horrible mood swings. She had a lot of great qualities too, but I'm just worried if anything will be remotely the same. She was my best friend, but I've kind of moved on. I still will befriends with her but not really bffs.. I'm also one of her only friends. She has like two others besides me. How do I handle this? Should I stick with her even though I don't really want to? (link)
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Considering that she went to rehab I'm assuming she had some mental or addiction problems. Either of these issues can effect a person's emotional well being and being in rehab may have helped her to find other ways to deal with situations that she may have been secretive or lied about as well as her mood swings. I definitely say give her another try, that doesn't mean that she has to be your best friend again but she was your friend for one reason or another even with her negatives so at least give her another chance. She probably needs healthy friends to be healthier herself. If things don't seem to be better with her after some time then decide what to do from there. No one expects you to surround yourself with an unhealthy person that might bring you down either. But definitely give her a shot.
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Thank you, you gave the best advice.
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