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I like this kid and I feel like he likes me but I've never had a boyfriend so I could be wrong. When I walked in the cafeteria the first few weeks of the second quarter he looked at me until I walked to my table which was behind him, so I would break the stare. I feel like he looks at me a lot when he sees me. My friend and I stay after to work on a project for a class we have together and he would come into the library and she said he was looking at me the whole time but I don't know if he was or not because he was clear across the Library. He's supposedly a very outgoing guy, he has a lot of friends that are girls. Do you think he's kinda liking me or at least thinking I'm attractive? If you think so why won't he talk to me if he's so outgoing? Thanks!

Hey,
I think there is a good chance he might like you :) Him staring is a sign that he wants to say hi, but is probably too shy to do so. If he is an outgoing guy, he is probably to nervous to talk to such a cute girl. Guys may seem macho, but when they see a girl they like they tend to break down and be the complete opposite. The reason why he can talk to a bunch of other girls just fine is because he only sees them as friends, but acting different around you is definately a sign he may be into you; guys act strange around girls they like.

I would say he wants you to make the first move to know if you notice him too. It doesn't have to be big, just a casual hi with a smile and you will be sure to start a spark. It sounds as if he needs a little boost to start his outgoing-ness with you... so be yourself, smile, and see if the sparks there!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. It's times like these I wish I wasn't so shy, myself ): haha
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