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Alright, I'm sick of people saying that I don't know what love is. My friend Cierra thinks the same. She's in a relationship with her bf they have been dating for 3 years, and she says that anyone can be in love at almost any age. My bf is the guy I want, he helps me feel better when no one else can. I sometimes cry and pray to god that he won't take him away from me because I have never been treated this well before. I"ve dated 3 other guys than him in the past and they never came close to be this close to me. Him and I think the same, and feel and worry in the same ways. We both need each other or we will be lost, we wouldn't know how to get threw life. We both feel like outcasts, alone and we don't fit in* even though I think he has more friends than I* He doesn't like it when I get depressed and lonely he helps me soo much. My brother told me i shouldnt be so dependent on a guy, but he's the only person I want. I just want to show people that this IS love, my parents don't like me and my bf together because he's 2 years older. He's not what they think he is. I know they want me to be safe and what not, and they don't want me to be sexual active. *which im not* I'm waiting and he respects that XD He said " You don't have to do anything your not comfortable with. I love you to much to hurt you." The most we have done is kissed. I'm shy, and quiet he's loud *when he's with me or friends* and a dare devil haha >.> Will everyone eventually get use to us? We've been dating sense january i think? He knows all that. lol There getting a little bit use to it ..my parents...i just don't want them to think badly of my bf. >.< Please tell me what you think..thank you. XD

ok.. Anyone can find love, at any age.
I don't think that people know what they're really saying when they tell you that you don't know what love is..
I think that they are just trying to tell you in the wrong way, that even if you and your b/f split up one day.. hopefully you won't.. but that if you do. It will be hard.. you'll feel like there is a huge hole in your chest and for a while you'll feel like you can't even breath. but your young and you'll find another.
You brother is just looking out for you.. because he is a guy.. and he knows how guys think.. he's also trying to prepare you for the worst that COULD happen one day.
And as for your parents, they will NEVER approve of anyone you date.. no one will ever be good enough.. because you are they're baby!!
Don't get mad or upset.. don't stress about it.. just keep living your life the way you know is right! You don't have to have sex, to make it feel like REAL love.
Real love is great with out the physical aspect of things.. and once you do graduate to that step in life and love.. you'll know that it's exactly what you want.. you'll know when the time is right.. you'll feel it in your heart.. not in your pants :D

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