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Okay I'm 15 and I'm female though i don't feel like one I'm pansexual. I hate being i girl i don't even think like one and it makes me cry sometimes cause i feel like my life has been a mistake i was born the wrong person...i talked to my mom about this but it didn't help and my stupid boyfriend is a jerk about it. And i want to break up with him cause there is an age difference and also a lot of problems i was end up in fights with my mom over him and having to deal with my gender problem isn't helping either. I need to find out how to break up with my boyfriend and how to cure this need for being a boy. Can u help??
First of all you don't need to "cure" yourself, but you do need to find a group and/or person who has the same issues as you,ie. internet.
My BIGGEST advice is DON'T DO THIS ALONE!!!Find someone who will NOT judge you to talk to. This is important because you need to know you are perfect the way you are. This will help you accept yourself, the way you were created to be and that there is nothing wrong with you.
Being 15 is hard enough!!! Being a "pan-sexual" (don't' know that term) 15 year old, must be absolutely painful! Our society place such harsh judgments on lifestyles different from the "status quo"
This is a very real problem for you, that one day won't BE a problem, but a very wonderful life you live. If you have any spiritual beliefs, and it doesn't have to be Christian, seek it out. Christians tend to be much more judgmental.
Pagan,Buddhist,Wicca groups, or any metaphysical group are all very accepting. Through this path, you can learn to love yourself. Although not an easy road for you my dear, I am sure. If you want to discuss more, email me at askterrimagick@gmail.com
NOW, THE BOYFRIEND.
You don't need to tell your boyfriend ANYTHING, other than, " I'm not in love with you and its not fair to you or myself to be in this relationship anymore." Breaking up is NEVER easy, but sometimes it has to happen. It sounds like he is much older than yourself? He will be just fine. Of course, Be kind, but you don't need to tell him anything you don't feel comfortable saying.
I really hope I helped, even a little bit.
Love is being sent your way
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