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I have sex every now and then maybe once every two months. Every time we have sex it hurts like hell and i can't seem to get past the pain to start off with..so i never end up enjoying myself. Does it hurt everytime because we do not do it enough or is it some other random reason. I just want to be able to enjoy myself with my Boyfriend.

Sex could be painful because you are too dry down there. Do you engage in foreplay? That helps get you wetter so things aren't as painful. If you do and that still doesn't help, there are lubricants you can buy to make things easier. Just remember to use a water-based lube because an oil-based lube (like petroleum jelly) could break your condom!

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