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ive lived many lives and walked many roads. I am an em-path and have the ability to get to the heart of the matter.
I know about love, loss, death, family and spirituality.
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I raised two boys. One is now 26 and in the video game industry. The other is 21 and teaches CPR.
(two fathers, never married...)

The love of my life is a Stock Market Dynamo.(I hope to with this one)

I have been in recovery from drugs and alcohol for 10 years.

Ive been in dysfunctional and healthy relationships.

Im a big believer in Cause and Effect, Law of Attraction, and the Golden Rule.

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20/f, do not laugh at me, haha..
I've started hanging out with this guy that I'm really really starting to like. It's been a long time since I've gotten butterflies like this, and I've had them ever since I met this boy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, because we openly flirt, but we've only hung out once before and that was with mutual friends. We're both SUPER shy.

We're hanging out at his house alone Friday night and I'm really nervous. We're gonna watch movies and stuff and through texts we've been flirting and "joking" about us cuddling and holding hands.

Basically, and excuse me for being such a loser, I need to know how to naturally make flirty physical contact.. like how do I put my head on his shoulder while still kinda being cute and subtle? I don't want to sit far away from him like middle schoolers do. Any other tips and advice for movie date night you can offer??? I haven't dated in over a year. Help! Thanks in advance, advicenators.

I agree with jobrolvor. Take a deep breath, smile, and hold his hand. Or when talking or laughing, nonchalantly tap his shoulder.
Sit close to him on the couch. There are many opportunities to show him you want to be touched.
I like the scary movie technique, very brilliant.

When you two greet each other, give him an extra long hug, make direct eye contact and a nice long peck on the lips...

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(Rating: 5) thanks!! The movie night was tonight and your advice really encouraged me to lean my head on his shoulder :D


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