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hi im turing 16 in august im female and i have had this bestfriend sience second grade and now im in tenth and well we havent seen or talked to eachother since fifth grade i never forgot him i looked him up on myspace and we started talking again and now my feelings for him are comming back i told him i still like him he dont believe me. he said b4 i told him he has no time for a gf or a love life. i wanna ask him out and tell him how i feel but im scared to lose him as a friend im so confused can you help me?

Hey there,
Talk to him when you two get a chance to be alone. Tell him that you would like to be more than just friends and that you would appreciate it if he could think about it at least, for you mean it when you say you love him. Then, give him some time to think. He needs to sort things out in his head before he decides anything. I believe he will understand if you tell him calmly how you feel, that it would be alright if he thought about it, and then tell him how much you appreciate the friendship you already have with him.

I feel that this guy would rather spend some quality time with you for a while, become emotionally closer to you, and then he will feel confident as being your boyfriend. Tell him no matter what you will always make some time for him, that way he knows you will always be there. Build the relationship a bit more, let him know in person how you truely feel (convince him), then have some patience.

He will love you no matter what. All he needs to decide fate, is a little time (alone and with you), once he knows all the facts

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(Rating: 5) thank you for your awesome advice i think it might work but eather way i need him in my life as a friend or as a boyfriend i talked 2 him bout it he said he thinks if anything happens when we date it would affect our friendship i told him i cant promise nothing but i can promise i will try my best not to let that happen thanks alott i needed that :)
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