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15/f sophomore
Okay, so I know this may be melodramatic, but I am in love with my best guy friend. I have been since 6th grade. I just have never had the guts to tell him how I feel. I've always been afraid it would ruin our relationship. He's perfect for me; cute, sweet and a little sarcastic. He is my discription of the perfect guy basically.
Well, on Thursday, he told one of my friends he liked my other friend. No one in existance knows about my feelings, except for my sisters, so I pretended like I thought it was cute that he was crushing on her. It was terrible. He's never really had any other crush, his first one being in the 7th grade. After that he's never, that I know, had a crush.
I would be okay-ish about it, but she does not like him. She is always saying "eww, he likes me like that?" and "that's creepy. I want to kill him!" and then she goes and leads him on!! It makes me so mad and I just felt like crying! I kind of ignored him after that just so I wouldn't start crying randomly.
I need help! I don't know what to do. I can't tell him I like him because he likes her and I think she might like him but I don't want them to be a couple because she is a jerk to him! Someone help me please!!
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I think you should tell him how you feel. True... He may not feel the same about you. Or your friendship may never be the same again.
But ask yourself... Is keeping your secret worth all the suffering? Wouldn't it be better to know how he feels about you... Rather than suffering in silence and always wondering what may have been?
I don't know. Those are questions for you to answer. That is a choice you have to make.
As for the girl that completes this love triangle... Maybe she likes him, maybe she doesn't. Maybe he'll date her instead of you. If you discuss your feelings with him and he choses her... While I realize all that would be difficult to bear... Stay out of their relationship, even if she is a jerk. Say what you need to say and leave it at that.
(Rating: 5) thanks.. as I was reading this I was thinking "this is really good advice... but I don't like it!" because it's really not what I wanted to hear but what I needed to hear.. read.. lol. so thanks :)