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I'm a student studying Communications, Graphic Design, and possibly Music. I've worked quite a lot of jobs and I've worked with quite a lot of different people. I see sides of people that most don't really think about. Friends generally come to me for any sort of advice. My hobbies include playing music (bass guitar, guitar, sax, and singing), radio DJing, longboarding, art, and spending Sunday afternoon being lazy. Basically I offer some pretty solid relationship advice, life advice, or what to do life questions. I've also spent the last 3 years of my life being chronically ill so I can offer some advice on that level too. I've learned a lot of things and I look at life a little differently than most 18 year old women. If you just need some reassurance or comfort, I'm here. I'm pretty chill like that.

advice

i'm having a hard time knowing who i am right now.
like personality wise. i don't know who i am or who i want to be.

am i nice or a bitch? do i want to be open-minded or what?

i just don't know who i am anymore. i really need some advice on how to 'find' myself.

i'm kinda scared.

Take a deep breath. Slooow down. It seems like it seems like everything might be out of control a bit. If you have major stress factors in your life right now, reduce them or get rid of them. Find more time in your day to reflect on your life, etc. Pick up a new hobby. Find things that make you happy. This is the best way that I've found to determine who you are and where you're going. When life gets crazy you start to react oddly and your personality seems like it's changing but all you need to do is step back a bit and reflect. I hope this helps.

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