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I'm a 21 year old female and my husband and i got married a little while ago a year to be exact. i keep track of the money and were doing well so i asked if we could try for a baby. he said one day but i can't stop thinking about it. i see babies everywhere what can i do to convince him to have a child now?
artlover89 (link)
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Oh my goodness honey, don't be in such a hurry. Seriously. You've only been married a year, you're only 21 - now is not the best time to have a baby! It's not the worst time either, granted, but you've got sooo much time to enjoy life, enjoy each other, get to know each other better, take classes, travel... you will NEVER have this kind of freedom and autonomy again. Don't throw it away!
That said, since you know you DO want a baby eventually, make sure you and your husband are on the same page about that. You could even discuss what year you want to start trying. Personally, I'd recommend being about 25 or 26 when you have your first, but that's just me.
So there's my two cents. But best of luck no matter what you and your husband decide!
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thanx i talked to him were going to travel across canada this spring
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