Member Since: January 11, 2010
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Last Update: January 19, 2010
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I didnt know them well personally.. but occasionally I'd check their facebooks when i was bored.. like Im sure most people do on facebook anyways. and there were some pictures of them like drinking alcohol and stuff.. also with some other people and other people smoking and stuff.. everyone underage. i told the entire guidance department using a fake email.. and im not sure whether to feel like i did a bad or good thing? cause in 1 way its like i prevented them from really ruining themselves like some teens who never had someone intervene, even their parents. but on the other hand it was snooping.. stalkerish to do.. and now they have to go through stress with the administration now about it. they are all really popular kids at my school. but at the same time its not like i reported them to police.. i definitely wouldn't do that.. i think the school would handle that sort of thing better. i am also worried on being found out. i know if they find out im fcked for life socially. and i'd lose a lot of respect and people's confidence maybe. or they'll just think im a creepy stalker. but people have albums on facebook for people to see them so its not really an invasion of privacy i think. i just do not know what to think. i just feel pretty guilty right now.. ughh whas this a mistake or the right thing to do? (link)
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Listen, what was your motive for telling the school they were doing drugs? If you had been doing it to get them in trouble you would have gone to the police. Instead, you did what you believed to be the best for them.
Understand that. At your own risk, you did what you believed to be the best for someone else.
This is a noble thing, and it took some extrodinary courage.
Any stress they have to go though now is their own fault. Any stress they do not have to endure later is thanks to you.
I don't think there is any way anyone would know unless you tell someone else who leaks it. So be careful who you tell and you should be fine as far as your social life is concerned, but more importantly, don't feel that what you did was in any way wrong.
You did the right thing. Hold onto that.
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Thanks so much! You dont even know. I checked their facebook profiles to get their reactions to today and they were saying things like karma is a bitch and i have no life and everything.. while also admitting that they lurk other people's profiles sometimes too. I was worrying about tomorrow.. feeling guilt and worrying over my morality. But you just cleared everything up with your words.. I cant thank you enough. This is definitely not going beyond Advicenators, too!
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