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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me xadvice
k so today i was with my bf and he was saying all these nice things about me.like he was like "oh you look extra beautiful today i just dont know what it is"...then after he said all those nice things he goes "but you really do need to loose some weight,im sure you like to eat alot,your like my little sister she loves food" i was like ok WTF.he know that i go for jogs almost everyday.i told him that i go for jogs everyday and hes like yeah but thats not enough,you should join a gym and eat less.i was speechless.
ok let me describe my body size to you.i have a large frame,im smaller from the top(size12) and bigger from the bottom (size 14)...im curvy.is this fat?do i need to loose weight?i was so hurt that i teared up.he kept apologising and didnt even understand what he did wrong.he said that where hes from its not a big deal to tell a girl to loose weight and that hes sorry etc etc.
i just dont know how to get over what he said.i know he sat there for 2hours trying to explain himself...i almost broke up with him because of this but he was determined to make everything ok.
do you think he thinks im fat because he said i need to loose weight?oh i dunno,how do i get over this???
My boyfriend has said I was fat and greedy and Im still with him because I know its true although it does hurt.
But seriously size 12 and 14 isnt fat! Im 16-18 and I do think this is fat. I have a very big tummy, bum and thighs.
It was inconsiderate of him to say it and he should think before he speaks. If you are happy with the way you look then dont bother losing weight because of a stupid comment he made. If you jog each day at least your doing exercise!
He should love you exactly how you are, and dont change for anyone hun
xox
(Rating: 5) aww thank you!the thing is i have muscle thighs too which i cant loose!!P.S size 16-18 isnt that big but size 24 is :)