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whats the difference between love and lust?? what do i have..like when me and my guy chill we ussually get intamte we dont go out or anything its just always in his car doing you kno.. we have been together for 2 years and ome months and never did we do anything fun and when i do mention to go out he doesnt like that idea because were keeping are relationship on the downlow for now and i dont even know its so confusing? can somebody help me out with this.. id appreciate it thanks (link)
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Love and lust are two very different things, and you were smart to start to question your relationship with this guy. Unfortunately, the differences are somewhat difficult to explain.
It sounds to me like he is using you. Have you ever heard that phrase 'friends with benefits'? It seems to me that this is the kind of relationship that you have with him. The fact that he wants to have sex with you, but not commit, could mean he has a problem with emotional commitment.
I believe that the only way to deal with this is to confront him. If he says says something and you believe that is telling the truth, perhaps you should give him another chance to set things straight. If he doesn't, it would most likely be time to drop him. I'm sorry that I'm putting this so bluntly, but if he is using you, it's the only way to deal with a situation like this.
I hope this helps you. If he doesn't, I'm sorry. Good luck with everything.
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i have more questions!!! haha ill go on ur pagee
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