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AM I READY FOR SEX?

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Okay well im 14 going to be 15 in like 3 months. Me and my boyfriend make 6 months on the 4th of December so tomorrow. We have been talking about sex for that past few weeks now and I think im ready, but I still have this little voice in my head telling me im not. I know I really love him though and I know he won't do anything I wouldn't want to because he always caring of me. I really know I want him to be my first though, but the thing thats getting me is that im to young I think that's the only thing holding me back. What is your opinion on this and does it hurt your first time I really want to know pretty much everything please?

I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say that sex is as big a deal as you make it. It can either be not a big deal or it could be the hugest deal. The important thing is to remember that whatever you do, it's the right decision for you. 14 isn't too young, and I disagree with people that say things like "losing your virginity is the most important decision in the world and if you wonder if you're ready or not, you're not ready". That's sorta a bad attitude in my opinion, because it makes sex into something negative, and it antagonizes you for not being completely sure. People will almost never be COMPLETELY sure about anything, the important thing is to do whatever feels right for you.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks I liked how you put this.
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