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E-mail: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Zealand
Occupation: University Student, soon to be teacher
Age: 20
MSN: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
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I have a problem. I just got back from a foreign country a few months ago after being there for over a year. When I got back to my hometown, I was expecting a very warm welcome back from my family and relatives. Instead, it felt like they were rejecting me. I was more happy to see them than they were happy to see me. I actually went to college at the foreign country but then dropped out of the second semester because I was not able to master their culture and I just got shut down many times. Well I came back to my home state and I'm thinking this is the reason why my family is acting shady around me and it really hurts. Some of my relatives also asked me why did I come back. The whole reality of my comeback is just eating me on the inside.. How do I deal with this so I wouldn't have to worry anymore where I stand??? (link)
ohhhh i think theyr just abit disapointed that you didnt finish your degree.i think because you were so close to finishing that they were looking forward to seeing you graduate.i guess you should finish your semester.i mean you only had one semester to go and then you can get out of that country and go back to your family and make them proud that they have a graduate or you can study where you are?the main thing is that to mean they wanted you to finish your course now they see you as giving up on what you wanted to do,to become


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It was actually my first year, and the career I chose was not really at my level. I only decided to come back just so I could finish my studies here instead. I regret my decision but I guess I just was not ready. I was at a different level as everyone else culturally. Thanks for your honesty!!!




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