Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
She lives with her boyfriend. Life may not have always been good, but it is good now.
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OK so I have to ask. My girlfriend has been crazy for me to cum inside her but I am afraid of making her pregnant. She is on birth control and everything but still I feel like she is trying to trap me with a baby. Why? Because this is what she told me: She said that having cum inside her is a feeling of completeness and is 1000x better than orgasms.
Have any of you ever heard this? Is this for real? Do you really feel like that?
Thank you! (link)
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It does create a greater feeling of intimacy between two loving partners. However, you should not feel pressured into doing it, because it could lead to pregnancy. Any man who does not wish to become a father yet must wear a condom to protect his own interests. Relying on your partner to prevent you from becoming a dad leads many men to fatherhood in the end.
Why? Because sometimes pills get forgotten or get taken too late, or she goes on anti-biotics or sometimes it just fails (rarely, but it's not 100% effective even if used perfectly. It's 99% effective, which still leaves a tiny window of risk that you rightly do not want to take).
So let her know you understand why she wants this, but her request makes you uncomfortable and that until you're ready to become a father, you're not going to be okay with it.
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You are awesome! Thank you for the answer. I have been asking IRL and pretty much every girl is backing her up on the better feeling.
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