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I got a text from my girlfriend last night saying that her parents are making us break up because they found out that I touched her in innapropriate places. She is only fifteen and I am eighteen. I need to know what to do to. I don't want us to break up but her parents can get me in a lot of trouble if I don't obey their wishes. If I could have a second chance, I wouldn't touch her anywhere. Right now, I just think I need someone to talk to. I have had suicidal thoughts and that's not normal for me and I don't like it. Please please tell me what I can do! (link)
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first of relax
second take it easy
third if you really want something withthis girl please...just stay alive guy if you kill yourself youll never have the chance to redeem yourself. As for the parents...just hear my opinion ok? You ARE AN ADULT SHE IS NOT! ok? You did a NO NO ok? so what should you do? let her be. You are not in california i imagine or else youd be writing here rather than typing. They are in their legal right to tell you to back off, and if they want to press charges they could very well do so...so like i said relax and give her the space her parents are asking for. im not saying this relationship is gonna work but i am saying that if they do not press any charges let her mature and in a few years if shes still interested in you then at least itll be legal. got it? You really need to be man right now and accept what you did was wrong and that the only reason you feel bad is cause you got caught not cause you regret doing what you did. be brave man!! you were brave enough to touch her a minor innapropriate ways so now you have time to make a diffrence in her and your life, dont even try and get near her to appologize right now you need to stay sane, be strong and of strong courage, DO NOT go and try to get sympathy your not the victim here you are an adult and adults accpet errors and accpet responsibility and the consequences, the only thing you will accomplish by doing something dumb or crazy is dishonor your name, i know it seem sharsh what im telling you regardless im not saying to go kill yourself. just obey and stay single for a while obviously sex is not important and nore is obeying the law so just listen to them and leave their daughter alone think about it howd you react if someone did that to your sister or daughter or wife? think about it!!
i hate to say this but i really dont care if you low grade me..but i really do hope this helps
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i understand that I am an adult. I fully take responsibility for my actions. I'm not going to kill myself, I was just talking out of anger and depression. thank you for the advice~!
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