Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
She lives with her boyfriend. Life may not have always been good, but it is good now.
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I have 2 questions to ask you.
1.) I have 2 ulcers on the inside of my upper lip. My bf told me that they came out because of kissing, is it true that if you frenchkiss you can have ulcers? (he doesn't have ulcers in his mouth, so they couldn't be spread from his mouth).
2.) Yesterday my bf fingered me for the first time. He was with the clothes on and he didn't touch his penis, so he couldn't have sperm on his fingers right? His nails were a bit long and he hurt me and also he didn't wash his hands before!!
Next time i'll tell him to cut his nails and wash his hands. What do you think? He only did it once! (link)
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By ulcers, do you mean cold sores? If you have cold sores, you should refrain from kissing or oral sex until they're completely healed over because they're contagious. You may have contracted them through kissing, but sharing glasses as a kid, face cloths, things like that could also have transmitted it to you.
It's a virus that enters your body and never leaves, and occasionally it can flare up and bother you. See a doctor about getting some treatment to minimize the length of time you have to deal with your sores. Lots of people get cold sores, it's a very, very common issue. It may also be bacterial, fungal, or just a result of not enough fruits and veggies. Your doctor will know for sure.
Now, as for your boyfriend, if you're worried about pregnancy, you will not get pregnant from fingering. It's a safe activity. He would pretty much have to ejaculate all over his finger and insert it into you immediately for it to be a concern.
And yes, I would have him keep clean hands and trim nails before ever allowing him to finger you again.
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