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Q: So, I'm 15. female. I've had this boyfriend for a little over 2 months now. And like, he's kinda one of those flirty boys, the one that flirts with a lot of girls and stuff. So i just have this gut feeling hes flirting with others girls behind my back and shit. Like last night, he textes me (doesnt have anything to do with convo) "I mean, I can text you tomorrow if you want me to ;)" And I was like oh that must have been to someone else..and he was liek "no it was to you baby." and i was like "nahhh tht woulda been completely random." And then he was like "hahaha your right, it was to someone else." So he fucking lied about it. And I honestly don't know. I mean I text a lot of other guys and shit, but the thought of him flirting with other girls makes me sick. and texting other girls does too. I just have this really bad feeling in the pit of my stomach that he flirts with a million girls, while in a relationship with me. uhh? any advice on what i should do ? thanks guys :D much loove.
i know exactly how you feel hon. my boyfriend is the exact same way. he intimately hugs other irls, texts them calling them honey and sweetie. Dances with other girls, and the list goes on and on. I say you talk with him and try to find out what he thinks of your relationship. tell him how you feel. if he is your boyriend (ie he asked you out) then that is a commitment and he should honor it. trust me if you let it go on like i did, you'll get way too attached and it'll hurt more when you realize it has to end. My guy has already told me he loves me, and ive just recently realized that i deserve better. it hurts, ive spent the whole weekend crying. i wouldn't wish that kinda pain on my worst enemy.
i wish you luck, you deserve better than to date a tool.
XXXOOO
Lonely_girl

thank you so much girl.
i hope it gets better for you.
god, boys are such a let down |:

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My names Kass and I'm fom Edmonton, Alberta. I am a vegatarian (not cuz i like animals, but cuz i hate vegtables lol). I spend most of my spare time practicing Tae Kwon Do, playing my guitar(acoustic of course), and listening to indie rock. My favourite bands are Death Cab, Modest Mouse, Jimmy eat world, and Buckcherry. I don't really have a style but if i had to describe it i guess i would say fashon forward with a hint of boho lol. I don't take alot seriously, but I can be ver diligent if nessecary. But I'm sure you tired of hearing(reading?) about me.

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