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there is this guy, I'm fifteen, and he is about the same age, he wants to lose our virginity together, and i think I'm going to. But i refuse to without a condom, and i don't believe in sex after marriage, and i do love him, even if it wasn't for forever, and i just want to know if there is any other precautions, other than STDs and condoms and what not, and i have no idea how to get a condom and i don't want to use plastic wrap because that's not safe really.. this is kind of embarrassing so please don't judge me..thanks for the help !! (link)
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Theres nothing to be embarrassed about sex is a natural part of a human being. I would like to say that 1. be very careful 2. do not expect the stars and the moon (orgasm) 3.make sure he is going to value you weather you do or do not have sex with him 4.you might not care right now if it last but will it bother you if he doesnt care either? i mean what if he doesnt care and tells his buddies? and they tell their guy/ girl buddies and so on...see where im going? be very carefull and keep researching its the best thing you can do before taking your step in what will be a big change in your body and future. If you do decide to have sex think about it first and accept the consequences and resposibilities that come with that...your body will want to keep exploring the sexual world and theres nothing wrong with that just dont get lost in it and make it the 1st thing i your life there are many goals that you stilll need to full fill. Condoms at least in this state are givien for free at schools and many clinics. If you do have sex please make sure he will respect you no matter how excited you are and he is if you say it hurt and it will/can he needs to be a person you will trust he will stop and get off of you and comfort you...i mean do you want him to just shove it in or to be gentle and take your time and not hurt your relationship? You need to not let him insert his penis inside your vagina with out a condom preferable a latex if your not allergic to latex of course. use one with a spermicide (kills sperm) DO not use plastic wrap..it can lead to pregancy and stds and cuts ..ouch!!! even if you use a condom expect some pain every one reacts diffrently but just take your time theres a whole world to explore and love can be had with out sex..believe it or not. I hope this helps
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thanks for your advice!! and i've told him no, he respects, i told him no just to make sure i could actually say no, and i won't with out a condom, thanks
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