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Born in the 60's means I have had a great life full adventures and mishaps and experiences and direction. I am 5th of 6 sibblings. Now I am married 24 yrs with 2 teenage boys 17 & 16 yrs and a son 8yrs
Boys are definately challenging but I am up to the task. We own a business here 20 yrs I am a jack of all trades master of none. If you want something done you got to do it yourself. I pride my self with the fact that when I left home I never asked my parents for any assistants of any kind esspecially money. I struggled and now I am my own success story.

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i am a girl, 18 years of age, from india. i met a guy on the internet a few months ago. he's the same age as me. we both live in different cities but are in contact through net and phone calls. he had proposed me about 2 months back, but at that time i had refused because by his behaviour and the no. of girls he's in contact with, i thought he was a flirt. we still continued to be great friends. but i realised that i have fallen in love with him just a few days ago when he stopped calling me or taking my calls. but then, after a few days he told me that he had been out of his town that's why couldn't take my calls. and now he has reduced the no. of times he used to call. please help me, because i dont want to lose him now. even though i know he has many girls there in his life. but i still cant help my feelings for him. i had already rejected him first and now i dont know what to do when i've realised that i too have fallen for him. what should i do? i want him to love me now. will it be possible in any way?

Are you in India or born there & live somewhere else? Bring back the good old days when you met people at the dance. I don't understand this cyber dating thing I just don't like the concept of believing everything I hear Guys tell lies you can tell if you look close enough & listen to the deception I can catch people in lies all the time.
obsevations & story mixups. If it's the truth the story never waivers but lies cannot be told exaxtly the same they always add something or leave something out or change the angle. So I wouldn't get carried away with him guys are supose to chase girls not the other way around. Don't become so desparate that he is the only pebble on the beach because you know that's not true. You will know when your in love and the mind games he's playing he dosen't diserve you. Can you find someone closer to home someone you can talk to face to face have coffee together and date in the real world not the cyber world. Don't beat yourself up over him. find someone you can cuddle up and watch a sunset with that's what love is about spending time together feeling closeness. Good luck sweetie.

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(Rating: 4) I live in india only. We both do! Its just that we have a distance of some 400 or so kms. between us. Well its not actually cyber dating if i ust say. it was just by chance that i got in contact with him. I know he's not the right kind of guy for me, but i dont know why, i just cant get him out of my mind now. even i've had many guys in my life too, and there are many who are still waiting for me, but this guy, i dont know why i feel differently towards him. anyway, it was nice of you to guide me through my problem, and i guess to an extent, you are quite right. and besides, i have whole of my life infront me right now... thank u for helping me out of this confusion!! thanks a lot!!!!


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