18/f
Long story short, I am insecure, and I have dated my bf for about 2 years now. We even live together due to certain complications lol. But, I hate when I start a debate and end up finding out obvious things like the fact that he looks at other girls, especially areas quite uncomfortable. And all he says is "I try to look away, and distract myself, which I do, by finding some other guy who looks stupid staring at the girl". It really gets me jealous... I wish I weren't insecure and jealous, and I cant help it, can anyone try and help mee?
sincerely,
insecurely jealous.
So long as he's only looking & dosen't touch no harm done. He's with you. All guys look at other chicks they can't help it, it's just the way they are. Woman are the stonger sex men just cannot accept this fact. It's not the wisest thing to debate your spouse. instead say what you mean & mean what you say. Men don't like too much information they get lost in transcript. Keep your shots short & sweet and to the point. Remind him he wouldn't apprieciate you oggling another guy. you will become more confident if you address your insecurities as they happen but don't blow them out of purportion. Good luck.
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great advice, thank you
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