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18/f
Long story short, I am insecure, and I have dated my bf for about 2 years now. We even live together due to certain complications lol. But, I hate when I start a debate and end up finding out obvious things like the fact that he looks at other girls, especially areas quite uncomfortable. And all he says is "I try to look away, and distract myself, which I do, by finding some other guy who looks stupid staring at the girl". It really gets me jealous... I wish I weren't insecure and jealous, and I cant help it, can anyone try and help mee?
sincerely,
insecurely jealous. (link)
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I dunno about you, But I would feel sad if my female partner was checkin out other men, thats a respect breaker, i don't see the difference with yours, he gains nothing from you other then that you get jealous, so he probably likes it.
I would suggest telling him about it, and if he shrugs it off then gee, i suppose he just doesn't care very much about you hmm?
its okay to look at another woman in a non sexual way, its when you romanticizes it or say that mm i'd like to tap that
if he does it all the time esp infront of you then he has no respect for you
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