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So I did something to make my husband not trust me (FYI, I have been married for 10 years and am having a significant b-day soon; perhaps I am in mid-life crisis mode). Actually more than one thing, two things. (1) I had two flirtations on FACEBOOK; strictly 2-dimensional, but definitely behaviour inappropriate for a married woman. Got caught, with one, fessed up to the other in an effor to be truthful. Deactivated my FACEBOOK; that was 3 1/2 months ago. (2) I sent an e-mail to an ex of mine admitting some unresolved feelings and wondering if we ever could have made it together; my husband found this e-mail {yes, by poking thru my personal stuff}. I maintain that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS, and that these were thoughts conveyed in the e-mail with no interest in acting on these thoughts. He maintains that I had an 'emotional affair', (yes from one e-mail) and says he wants to forgive me but needs to takl about it 5x a week. What should I do? (link)
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Do you know how bad that hurts your insides? and yet you pounce around like its no big deal.
you get angry because he ask so much? maybe you made him feel worthless and servery corrupted his emotions.
In your mind its all swell but in his mind hes thinking your thinking of wild things to do with other men
best thing to do is to show him how much you love him, let him know that hes your only interest, do extra things for him etc, good luck with the trust part though
Thats the only guess I got.
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