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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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not sure if this is in the right category, but last year around this time me and my bro had been planning a huge party and my parents other 'vacant' house. we ended up inviting alot of people to the party. so the party was suppose to kick off a bit after our schools homecoming football game against our rivals. so everything had gone to plan and my friend drove me and my bro down to house. we had everythinf ready then police show up at our doors so were totally fucked, they make us call our parents and they talk to them and well i guess you can see what happened from ther on. luckily the booze hadnt arrived yet so we wer safe, but it was close. so now its almost a year later and i kind of want to hav a party again. but i want to hav this party with my friends from my old school (middle school)(im a junior now) i havnt rly talked to much to them which im not proud of because i had some great friends. so what im asking is how can plan this up to hav a successful party wher me and my friends just basically chill out and what not. my old house the last place i should go to have it but im not sure what to do. although my parents do go out of town for a few days. weekend of oct 16,17,18, gone for three days. now do i somehow get something going at my new house and run down to my old house. the thing about my old house tho is that its about 15-20 miles away.
Just wondering what you would do in this situation if you were throwing the party, even though i know not throwing one is an option. if things to work out it would only be 7-15 people or so. thanks
Damn that suuuuucks.
I don't get it though. Why did the police just suddenly show up? If you don't know.. either your parents suspected something, a neighbor did, or one of your friends are laaame.
I'd throw one! Not throwing one wouldn't even be an option for me. If you get caught, that sucks, but at least you had fun & got to see your old friends.
..This is why I would be a horrible parent.
Hahaha, anyway, so you're throwing the party when they go out of town, or is that part of the question? Wait till they're gone, as long as their not the type to call & check up on you every five minutes.
Throw it at your new house. If you try the old one again, you're pretty much guarenteed to have the same thing happen again. Cause what I'm guessing happened is your old neighbors saw all these cars and all those people, flipped out, and called the police.
So, stick with the new house. Try to find a way to make sure your parents didn't tell your neighbors to like watch your house while they're gone or somethin. Keep the music down if you're gonna be playing some. The amount of people you're inviting is good. I'd say anything over 15 is pushing the limit. Can everyone drive? If they can, tell them to carpool so you don't have so many cars in the driveway/in front of your house drawing attention to it.
Have fun. :D
Hope I helped.
EDIT:
Hell yeah I woulda shit my pants too. Hahahah.
So how to keep distractions down:
Basically, if your music's loud enough for you to FEEL it, turn it down.
Make sure you're not inviting two people who like hate each other. Fights could definitely cause a repeat of last time. Do you have a pool? Tell people to bring swimsuits if you do. Put anything breakable or valuable away where it won't be touched. Lock your parents bedroom. Get good food that everyone would like. Pizza & chips are always safe. Play music the majority of people will actually like; Try to have a good mix of genres. And if you really wanna, put a movie on just for the hell of it rather anyone'll watch it or not. You could try playing "I Have Never"--google it if you've got no idea what that is.
Beer pong is a must. If you don't have that, you fail. Hahah, so get enough plastic cups and beer and shit.
After everyone leaves, make sure they didn't leave anything behind. Clean the entire house.
(Rating: 5) yea, forgot to include that we got caught cuz neighbors suspected somthing, i almost shit my pants but luckily ther wasnt any alcohol, i wooda been so fucked. yea and one thing on your comment, how would i keep distractions down, like in the house, like music and shit but still make it awesome. thanks, it was alot of help