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This is pretty emmbarassing but im not afraid to speak of it. ive had sex with like 2 poeple only and a total of 15 times. ive done everything ya know ect. ect. but for the first few minutes of intercoarse its pretty good, then nothing. so thru all that time its not pleasurable at all. like theres no pain, just... dull-ness? like i feel nothing afterward then idk when to stop hah omgsh.
i hope that wasnt confusing.
is ther something wrong?
and weve tried ways to kick it up, but nope.. (link)
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Sounds to me like you are NOT having orgasms. And I am not surprised. You and your boyfriend do not understand how to pleasure a woman's body. SO I guess you have not tried everything yet. Go on line and google vagina and photos. You'll see some medical drawings of a woman's vagina. Note where the clitoris is. That is what has to be stimulated. When that spot is simulated the correct way. (with patience, with gentleness and with lots of lubrication) you should be able to achieve an orgasm. Maybe you should try it on yourself first.
Some women, if they have a small clitoris, can NEVER achieve orgasm through intercourse, But that does not mean that they cannot achieve orgasm. There are other ways. Oral sex is not just for guys.
- Hope this helps
Michele
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thank you michele. and my boyfriend & i have already done a few positions but things aren't so much different. but itll work out. thanks! (:
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