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E-mail: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Zealand
Occupation: University Student, soon to be teacher
Age: 20
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19 female. i like and HAVE liked this guy joe who is 18, for awhile now. we're pretty good friends too, so you wouldnt think it would be hard for me to ask him to hang out right? WRONG.

i'm always so nervous of getting rejected, who isnt? so i never ask him to hangout, i rarely text him first, it's how i am. lately i've been getting better. my friend gave me 4 free tickets to a major league baseball game sunday, so of course i think about asking joe to come. this was our conversation:

me: hey my friend is giving me four tickets for the baseball game friday. i'm going to find two other people to come, but do you want to come?
him: i have a football game.
me: on a sunday? werid. just thought id ask.
him: you said friday!
me: oh sorry i meant sunday.
him: what time?
me: 1:10
him: i have a hockey game.

...REJECTED:( i mean i know he's not lying, i know he does play hockey and football, he wouldnt lie to me but i just feel dumb. and i have these handcuffs and he stole the keys from me so then i was like:

me: will you like leave my keys at your neighbors tomorrow since me and my friend will be over there (i didnt want it to be a hassle and bug him so i said that..)
him: just come get them
me: will you be home?
him: sometime yea
me: ok i'll just text you and see if your home
him: alright

is it me or does he always seem short with me? or is that how boys just are? and now i have to see him tomorrow, i will be embarassed because i asked him to go to the game and he couldnt. maybe its just me overanalyzing but i dont know. what do you guys think? (link)
aww you sound soo sweet!firstly you didnt get rejected. im sure if he didnt have a game hed be sooo happy to come. you need to know this...girls=overanalyse boys=dont really think much about things. hes not being short with you its how he txts. he must want to see you if he told you to come get the keys from him in person. guys arent really the txting type usually theyd much rather speak on the phone or meet up inperson. dont stress about it. he didnt reject you so stop think about it lol just go there and see him for abit like get your keys and talk to him about things.its obvious he wants to chat with you just relax


Rating: 5
thank you! i always get worked up over things like this, but you helped:)




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