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Every day's an argument with my boyfriend, and it's only on ONE topic: my really good friend who happens to be a guy as well. I think that makes him uncomfortable. We've talked about it before, this has been going on for weeks. I've tried to make him understand he's strictly my friend and nothing else, and that's it.
Example: I went out with my guy friend & a few other girl friends, and we saw a movie my boyfriend wanted to see with me. He spazzed the fuck out saying that I went against my word when I didnt promise anything. Everyday's a fight over my friend. I can't do it anymore but I'm not gonna drop my friend over this since they didn't do anything to me or him.
well he's jealous. this means he really really cares for you but he doesnt know how to express it. what you need to do is talk to him NOT ARGUE but talk. say "look,____ is my friend. i would NEVER think of him that way..i love you too much to ever do that to you" that would be really good to say. it'll help things work out. arguing doesn't do jack. you may not realize this but going along with the argument is making him think that you DO like ur friend. just calm it down and TALK it out. Hope I helped :]
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yeah, this time, i'll actually put effort into TALKING and not leading to an argument... thanks :)
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