Life is good, people just need to learn how to get to that point..
Hi! I'm Tiffany and I am a 19 year old college student in Florida. I have had an older accounton advicenators before, and was actually a moderator, but I forgot the password. :(
I believe that there aren't any 'stupid questions' out there and that everyone deserves the right to know whatever it is they want to know. I'm very open minded and like most people, I have underwent my share of tribulations in life. I'm aware that things happen and consequences are unbearable and sometimes people just want to vent about it in frustration of not knowing what to do.
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i have been with this guy who is in a wheelchair for two years (almost 3). when we first got together things were wonderful. but now that we have been together we kinda dulled out and became one person. Its my senior year in high school, and all my friends say that i shouldnt be in a serious relationship now and to find myself. which i agree but i dont want to just break up with my boyfriend for that reason. cuz what if there is no one else out there like him. i dont know im so confused, i need serious help.
so stressed. none of my friends are getting along, so much drama. everyone is mad at each other. my boyfriend dont like my friends anyways.
please someone tell me what to do.
i dont know how to tell him if i am going to break up with him, he is very temermental. (link)
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I see where you're coming from. The first-dating chills and feelings can diminish with time but it's up to the both of you to keep it alive. I know it has to be difficult dealing with a boyfriend who is physically disabled, I mean-it's hard enough dealing with one that's physically fit, haha. All I cann say is, please don't listen to your friends and their opinion on high school dating and serious relationships. Because- what I have learned from people- is that they DON'T really care what you do. They offer advice, but if you were to break up with him and feel heartbroken, they will display some care but not really give a damn. I think you should stick with your boyfriend, like you have been doing. I know it means SO much to him that you are still here despite his disability. Just talk to him about how you really feel. I hope I helped :)
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well that made alot of sense. and i thank you very much
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