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Member Since: September 13, 2009
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alright, i think my friend likes the boy i like and she isnt giving up, but she said she can tell he likes me by the way he looks at me. she said he has that look in his eyes like im the only girl in the world he cares about. if she likes him but she thinks he likes me why wont she give up? i really like him, but he wont talk to me, why is that? is he to nervous to or what? shes the type of girl who will go up to anyone and make conversation. i would be devestated if he liked her but, hey, what can ya do. here are a few things, he looks at me alot and when i look at him we keep contact for 3-5 seconds then he looks away. he never says what he is planning to around me. idk what happens around my friend and him. but to make a long story short, do you think he likes me or her and why do you think my friend wont quit if she has a feeling he likes me?

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Well there's a reason why he looks away after 3-5 seconds and I certainly know it, it's not because he's intimidated it's because he finds it awkward or he thinks he looked at you first and is making you feel awkward, hell I feel the same way every time I look at a girl I like. If he wont talk to you, then talk to him just go up to him and say 'Hi' if he knows your name then start talking to him or give him a compliment however if he doesn't then introduce yourself 'Hi, I'm (insert your first name here)'. Alot of times a guy just ignores the girls who aren't his type. Infact I do it all the time with the really obnoxious girls who only talk to me so they say that everyones thier friend. If you wanna go out with him, ask him out. It's 2009, not the 1950s women can do anything men can and more (such as playing on male teams, we can't go on girl teams lol). Just ask him out, if he asks you if it's just a joke tell him that you're totally serious and just tell him the whole truth about however long you like him and why, etc. I find it really helps

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thanks, friend.




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