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My name is Darby. I'm seventeen years old. Feel free to e-mail or message me with any question. My e-mail is yo.darbyjay@live.com I will answer anything to the best of my ability. I decided to join this site because I love giving advice and have been told that I'm good at it. I get on every day. Usually a few times. You can also add me on AIM: OiScumPunk@aim.com.
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well my friends are kinda weird.
i was bullied for 5 years and these 2 guys, which we will call, JA and AL.
well both of them are still mean.
but all my frineds still hang out with them and so im left to sit on my own.
everyday.
any suggestions will be acepted
The way I see it, you've got two options here. You can either talk to your friends about how JA and AL bullied you for 5 years and how you're uncomfortable sitting with them. Some of your friends might see that this bothers you and decide to sit with you instead of them so you're not left to sit alone everyday.
The other option is to directly talk to JA and AL about them bullying you. Tell them how that made you feel. You might be able to work out your differences with them and you'll all be able to hang out and sit together.
If you try this option and JA and AL make fun of you or are rude about it, your friends will see this and (if they're good friends) they'll be angry with them for being mean to you.
If your friends don't care that JA and AL are mean to you, they're not true friends. In that case, you should find better friends that will accept you for you and not choose a couple bullies over you.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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thank you so so much i've decided to just go in there and hang with my friends and if they are mean again i'll just be up-front with it and tell them what there doing is wrong! : ) thank you xxxx
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