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Hey, lots of people say I give great advice that (usually) comes through in the end, but I'll let you be the judge of that.

I love reading, rocking and getting high. [:
I play bass guitar and I am bisexual.
I am a purebred metalhead, but I'm really into peace and love and all the hippy crap... probably because I'm a pot head. XP

I don't have many chick friends, I just don't get along as well with females. My bestfriend's are the greatest. [:

I like to meet new people and have fun. So, got a question? I'll do my best to answer it.

Peace.
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My friend told me that she is gay and I do not want to be friends with her anymore. It's not that I don't like her as a person but I cannot grasp the fact that she has become a lesbian. Just months ago she was dating men and now she is claiming homosexuality. I don't like it and the entire thing makes me uncomfortable. I'm trying to avoid her now more than ever since she has confessed her sexuality to me and I feel that I need to just tell her to her face why I no longer have interest in our friendship. How should I tell her? What should I say? I don't want to come off as cruel by saying, "You're a homosexual and that makes me too uncomfortable to continue a friendship with you," but at the same time I think it sounds most appropriate because it is the truth.

I know it isn't fair of me to not tell her why I have been avoiding contact with her. I know I should tell her but I'm not sure how I should go about this. I was thinking a neutral setting would be most appropriate but I don't want to embarrass her if she gets upset in some form.

Does anyone have experience with this or any ideas of how I should handle this matter? Thank you. (link)
That's awful.
I'm sorry, but you are a horrible, horrible person for wanting that.

I'm sure you'd get use to it after a while... ?
Holy crap.


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You didn't answer my question at all.




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