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Well, I'm Lori, i'm 17 and a Senior in high school. My friends are my life :)
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1.26.08

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alright. im an asshole. its as simple as that. im 17, i get with multiple girls at a time, and then get bored and move on. thats just what i do. or did. i dont know. the thing is theres this one chick i really like, or i think i like her alot but theres a problem... she knows me haha. she knows that i play girls all the time, and because of that she wont even give me a chance - not that i can blame her... but still. shes a real good girl. as in, an innocent, clean cut, straight a's, goes to church every sunday kind of girl. not what youd call my usual type. and at first thats why i thought i liked her. she was that innocent girl that i couldnt get so of course i wanted her, but i dont think thats it.. it just doesnt feel like that. i want to protect her, and keep her innocent, ya know? and then i start thinking about doing things with her that i do with other chicks and it makes me sick. and its kind of almost freaking me out. but i really like her (because we do talk, and i think shes one of the VERY few girls that i have a for real friendship with) and i want her to give me a chance and show her that im serious. because i think i am. but i also dont want hurt her. you know, if she were to some way she would possibly give me chance, i dont want to screw up. i dont want screw up with her. god i feel like a loser. what should i do?

ok, well take it from a girl thats had guys do to her what you've done to the girls you've been with.. thats a girls worst fear, its the worst possible thing that could happen to a girl and once we know its a possibility we shut down immediatley.

like the other people said, she knows the kind of guy you are now and so she obviously doesn't trust you when you say that its different with her and that you really do care. all you can do is be her friend at this point. if you stick around for a while just being her friend, not trying to get with her constantly or anything, and you dont do anything like you used to with other girls, eventually she might give you a chance.. key word is might. i know for me, which i'm 17 and a girl :P if a guy like you was trying to get with me i wouldnt give him the time of day. but if he stuck around for a while and showed me that he cares enough to be in my life even if its only as a friend. it would show me that he really does care and that i really am different to him.

as for messing it up if and when you get a chance with her. you just have to not be an asshole and you'll be fine, dont push things, dont be a jerk, dont treat her bad, easy as that :P like you said shes the good girl, so shes probably just as scared of getting hurt as you are of hurting her

-lorr

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(Rating: 5) yeah that makes sense. thanks babe
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