Dear Readers:
I think my life experience is what qualifies me to write this column. I made every mistake imaginable. But have learned from them. Most important I still remember what it was like to be 12, 13, 14, 15, and so on. Currently I am a single mom, I have two wonderful boys. One in college. We are all happy emotionally. We love life, and know that you can too. I try to be the kind of parent that understands. I know that I can help you to understand where you parents are coming from, and help you get over the difficulties of being young. You can even have your parents write to me and I will help them to get over their fears and at least respect you and your feelings. I have been married and divorced twice, so I have experience in that field also. But now I own my own home, and my own business and am successful. Lots of luck to you! Hope to hear from you.
Website: Ask Michele
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ok i cant bottle this up inside anymore i need to let it out!no one understands me so i cant talk to my friends about this because they just wont understand, theyll laugh at me and probibly call me pathetic. i dont blame them because this is just too weird. there this guy at my college/uni iv never spoke to him we always look at eachother but never spoke to one another and i think im seriously inlove with a guy iv never spoken to.its like when i look at him i know who he is and how he is and i just make up this fantasy in my head whether its true or not. he seems like a shy guy not really into going after girls hes always at the libry so i take it hes into his studies first all of this makes me like him more and more but i just dont have the courage to walk up to him and talk to him, i wouldnt even know what to say.usually im a random person and wouldnt mind but this guy makes my heart stop every time i look at him(oh my gosh i sound soo crazy i know) what am i suppose to do? i like him so much that im scared hell reject me or turn out to be gay or have a gf or not like me or think im some crazy girl...i really like him what do i do? i think the longer i hold it the more hell drift away i dont wanna like him and not tell him. what am i ment to say to him if i talk to him?how would i do it?write him a note?i just dont wanna be a random. im going crazyyy (link)
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Many married couples met in college. College is a great place to met the person who could end up being the love of your life. You'll regret it if you don't at least try. Why not approach him and ask if he is in one of your classes, sure he'll say no, but at least you've started a conversation. And no you don't sound crazy at all. We've all been through this. And you'll never know if you let the best guy get away or not, unless you try.
Good luck
- Michele
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thank you!those are some really sweet and incouraging words youve said..im going to go for it!
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