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My name is Darby. I'm seventeen years old. Feel free to e-mail or message me with any question. My e-mail is yo.darbyjay@live.com I will answer anything to the best of my ability. I decided to join this site because I love giving advice and have been told that I'm good at it. I get on every day. Usually a few times. You can also add me on AIM: OiScumPunk@aim.com.

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I am a 22 year old woman dating a 39 year old man. We've been together for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and he loves me.

Can our relationship last despite our age difference?

I agree with the other person that people that are 39 are in a far different stage in their life than a 22 year old. That doesn't mean that you can't make the relationship work though. Each relationship is an individual situation. There is no guidebook on these kind of things. Sometimes age differences have little effect on a couple, and sometimes the age difference tears a couple apart.
As long as you both acknowledge that you are at different stages of your lives and are understanding with each other, things should be okay. It's just a matter of being okay with the other person being in a different place. Don't expect him to be exactly like you, and he shouldn't expect you to be exactly like him. If you remember these things, your relationship has a decent chance at survival.

Darby(:

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(Rating: 5) I don't think I could have asked for a better answer from a user here on Advicenators. I really appreciate your time on this subject. Thank you so much.


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