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Friends, I am in desperate need of help, I am 40 happily married and a lovely family but recently on a long haul work related trip I badly rather we badly fell for each other that is me and my friend/colleague since the past 20 years. He has always been been my close friend, very trusted and we would share our worries and actually grew our families on each others experiences. But this new feeling is devastating, I know I am deadly in love with him and he too is. The attraction is so obvious that we would be lying if we deny it. I do not want to leave my family neither does he, but we love each other as well. It was a damned moment when we argued on something simple and he apologised and we felt how anything we do and say reaches our hearts. Later on we even talked about it, held each other and realised there is no future, and we do not want our families to hurt, but we do not know what to do.

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i would agree with the people under me saying knock it off and get your priorities straight, (which should be your kids), but the heart wants what the heart wants. you shouldn't go through life miserable. what you have to decide is whether being with him is truly worth leaving your family. its a complicated thing. but no matter what, do not cheat!!! that is what will truly tear your family apart. i wish you luck and hope your heart finds peace and happiness.

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(Rating: 5) Della, thankyou for your response, but I do not want to leave family. I wish I could have two husbands.

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