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Q: Alright so me and this girl are together but not dating and shes a very shy girl which means its hard to start doing stuff with her. Im not all in it for the sex but it would be nice to have and get us a lot closer. What can I invite her to do where I can be alone with her long enough to start doing sexual things with her? and how should start? I know making out leads to other shit but like shes so shy and its hard to even kiss her except when I say bye to her so what do I do? also I just want to know what I can invite her to do with me besides watching a movie where we can be alone together please help!!
haha alright well if you say she's a shy girl then you probably wont get anywhere unless you make her your girlfriend. You say you're not dating? well let me tell you MOST girls will not do sexual things with guys they're not dating. So yeah you can try to get her alone and start kissing her and all that but what I think is that shes not just shy, but she doesn't WANT to do sexual things with you because you're not her bf. Are you sure you're not in it for the sexual things? You don't just want to hook up? If not, then why don't you ask her out. That's usually the normal way to do things and what most girls want you to do...So i guess if you want to be happy you gotta make her happy first. Trust me, I'm a girl. and I know that doesn't answer your question but really I don't think there's anything you can invite her to do if she doesn't want to do anything.

she does wanna shes just shy she dont want a bf

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