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my boyfriend broke up with me because he feels like i don't trust him cause i don't know how to like express what i'm thinking i guess ...i don't really know how to put what i'm thinking into words cause i only trust him and my dad so i don't really know how to open up =/ i do trust him so much though and i told him that...what are some ways i can prove it to him?
A lot of people have trouble opening up and putting how they're feeling into words. The best way to show what you're feeling inside is through actions. Your boyfriend must have a reason to think that you don't trust him. Think about your relationship. Were you on his back a lot? Did you not trust him to hang out with his friends? Did you nag at him about where he was or who is with?
Maybe you didn't do any of those things at all and your boyfriend is just the type of person that likes to hear you say how you're feeling. If you have trouble saying things out loud to people, try writing it down first. Get a piece of paper and a pen and write all of the things you think about him. Doing this will help clear and straighten your thoughts out. It will make it ten times easier to actually say these things to him.
If you simply cannot tell him in person or over the phone how you're feeling right now- a nice, detailed e-mail would be good. Tell him what you told me; that you really do only trust him and your father. Tell him that it's so hard for you to verbalise your feelings and open up to people. Let him know that you miss him and that you're really trying to open up to him because he means a lot to you.
Don't hold back. If you hold back how you're feeling, he'll never know. You have to remember that people aren't in your head. You're the only one that knows what you're thinking. The people around you only know what you tell them. so if you don't tell him that you trust him, that he's important, etc.. there's no way of him knowing, even if you think he should know all of that by now.
Just really let him know how you feel. Hopefully when he hears you admit that you know you should verbalise more and that you're sorry, he'll forgive you and give you a second chance.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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