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Okay i used to live in E but I'm originally from S (i lived in E for 5 years but occasionally in summer break i would visit in S)

So suddenly my amazing (note the sarcasm) parents thought "hey why don't we send her to live in S, she might be a better person than a failure there", cruel fuckers? yeah i know

anyway back to the point I'm trying to make ... Every summer i used to come to Syria, i start having friends, but only hang out with this particular one which we will call T (he is a male), this guy is so cool and i love hanging out with him all the time, he is like my freaking idol you know and i've known him for 2 years even though we only spoke in summer breaks and hang out and no i never developed feelings towards him, he is just a friend but an idol also because he rocks ass

so when i moved here 2 months ago, i discovered he has a girlfriend which i got along with (it's really rarely because i don't get along with my own sex, i like hanging out with guys better) pretty fine.

but the first week i hang out with T , he was pissed at L (his ex girlfriend now), because after 1 year of dating, she asked for a break because she wanted some space and i thought he was one of those guys who is open minded and understands, but he was surprisingly the very opposite which was a surprise as you see

so while they were on a break, he was drunk and confessed that he's been liking me since i was dating his friend two years ago which was creepy for me, but anyways i made it clear to him that i don't date and i don't like him that way and i don't like this type of guys (I'm extremely honest i can make you uncomfortable), anyways we put that behind us and i got a c all that he and L is friends now and by time they will get back together which is awesome because he doesn't want me anymore so no stalking, which is great really

anyway we hang out a lot, and i really like L which is weird like i said i don't get along with girls much but she is different and cool enough for me to like her.

so one day suddenly i meet up with both of them and find them having a HUGE fight, like seriously, T was so rude to L i wanted to snap his head off and my idea of him being my idol changed completely, i mean he told her it's okay to have space and time to decide wether she wants to get back with him and then suddenly he goes like

"I don't care if you decide or not, because I'm leaving your bitch ass, you know L, you're like a pair of my shoes, when i finish with them i throw them away, and now i'm throwing you away"

That's like only 1% of the stuff he said to her which was horrible, but it's not my problem so i couldn't get in between them at all, like i had no right to speak so i watched him telling her horrible mean disgusting stuff for about two hours, i know I'm very patient, anyway but she was so scared of him she didn't say anything in return. I was disguised with them but i didn't really care you know

so the day after he invited me to a party where we all got drunk, and then while going back home, he was dropping me, he asked me "Did you talk to L today?" and i replied "No" and i was about to continue and say 'actually i was thinking about calling her' but he beat me to it and said "Good because i don't you to speak to a bitch like her", i stared at him shocked and said "you can't tell me what to do" and he said " i don't care, it's either me or L"

so i snapped (i was drunk) and start yelling stuff like "i don't care either she didn't do anything wrong and don't put me in this situation" and stuff like that but he was smiling at me all the time like giving me a look 'i-will-take-my-revenge-back-if-you-talk-L'

but i ignored him, said bye and got out of the cab

I didn't call him since but he never calls me because my phone is taken away from (yes I'm always grounded) he always waits until i call him

two days later which is today L called me and i went out with her and i told her what happened, it was slipped out of my tongue because i was pissed

Now i have no idea, a guy i know for 2 years and a girl for 2 months, but she is not wrong and he is wrong, and somehow I'm thrown in the middle, loosing my mind almost going to stop speaking to both.

Now i would like my faithful readers who read all of that for some very comforting advice because I'm going to snap on anyone who comes my way, thanks =]


WOW chick. Anyone ever call you hotheaded? I can totally tell you are just by reading this. Cause ya know, I'm a faithful reader and all ;) haha

ANYWAY. I'm blunt. Your idol friend is a dick. A controlling dick. He obviously has no respect for woman and walks around thinking he is the shit.

Considering L just sat there and took it, tells me he usually goes for mellow recessive chicks who would never dare stand up to him. That's cool for L and all, but your not that kind of person.

You know whats right and wrong. We all do. But you seem like the type of person who actually stands up for what she KNOWS is right.

Don't let that prick change ya know. I think you should stand by L' side on this. It doesn't matter how long you've known someone. What matters is the friendship they prove through out the time you have known each other.

I'm not here to tell you what to do. I'm here to give advice and you take as much as you can to use it to your best advantage. With that being said, I think you know what you need to do.

:) Hope I helped!

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(Rating: 5) Sup? Yeah actually i have been called hotheaded (LONG but funny story), Not the point though (even though i have a question if you're a male or female)
No i have nothing against female , because i am one

Moving on ... The thing is 'i love assholes' (like i mentioned I'm extremely honest) but not the kind that is violent ( I have something against guys who is stronger than me even though they all are but not the ones who show it like actually do something that is higher than you only because he is a fucking guy and born with more strength than you), okay I'm not sure if I'm ADD because I keep losing my point

Exactly I respect a guy who is a shit and walks around acting like a shit but this guy is no shit so why the fuck is he acting like one?

True (reminds me when I got a guy bleeding from a punch but the problem is he was 3 years younger than me) I like standing up for myself and I'd rather die than get someone let me do something against my will ( i mean it)

The advice i really want and just discovered that i told you the whole story but missed out the part 'what i really need help with' sue me i think i really do have ADD

anyways what i really want advice on is what should i tell T on the phone like i mentioned he never calls me because i don't have a phone yet so i use (not going to mention who's) phone to call him and he expects me to call him and he trusts me so bad, i reassure you no one ever trusted me like that and I'm tired of letting people down because of how an idiot and brain cell damaged i am, so i need to yell at him, make him hate me, i want him to ask me to stop speaking to him because it would be easier but this is weird, Am i nuts? seriously this is getting weirder with all the feelings i've inside I'm trying to discover (wait that's gay)

Ugh! Sorry needed someone to talk to even though i always think I'm better off alone and by myself, and i always push people away because ... Here is the thing I don't know why

Thank you, really thanks =] my faithful reader =]

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