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I'm Victoria, hense Victoriadvice


I love to give advice, I do NOT judge, and I love trying to help everyone and their situation. Even if I don't help much it makes me feel good to know I tried and did my part.


I love that I found this site because I've always been trying to find a way to have a site where I can give advice and where people might actually come to me for it, and I hope that some of you will give me a shot :)
Alot of times it is easier to talk to strangers about things, especially when it's about something you find you can't go to anyone else about.


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Hey!

Well, this guy I like he's awesome, cute, funny, caring and i think he could be the one. He also likes me. He makes me feel like.. I'm perfect,like an angel. I finally feel better about myself now that i met him.(I had a lot of guy trouble) Now i feel like he's the one. Right now we are like.."friends with benefits", i asked him out and he said "Can't we just stay best friends". Than after that that he said i don't know. I told him that he can think about it, and i mentioned we can be friends wit benefits..we are pratically already are. ha ha. He said he really wants me, but i don't understand why he doesn't want to date me? I think it's because some jealous girls started, a rumor about him and his last girl friend about him dating someone on My space. He wasn't that was before we even met. He was really hurt. :/ Now..that he met maybe he's to scared to date me because that rumor might seem true. This guys the sweetest guy i have ever met. Do you think we can eventually become more than friends with benfits?

Of course you can! And probably will. Maybe you should try asking him that same question. Tell him how much you like him and care about him, tell him you respect that he isn't ready to date you, let him know you understand that he's worried. But just ask him if he's ever going to be willing to try to be more than just friends with benefits with you. This should help some. Remember just take things slow, he'll eventually realize and come to his senses.

Hope this helps

-Victoradvice

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