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Okay, well I wasn't really sure where to put this but uh here goes. So I'm 13/F and he was 14/M. He is an awesome friend but he's always been a perv. Anyway, he took it too far this time and I flipped out. We were walking in a group and some other guys that we were with were making fun of him about how he "can't get a girl" and he says "I can get any girl I want!" so he grabs me, pins me against a wall, and sticks his hand down my pants. I freaked and kicked him in the balls... He looked like he was in severe pain. I almost felt bad but not really cuz what did he expect? But now he's super pissed at me. I don't think he has a right! Does anyone else think I was out of line?

Okay Jack, so it does hurt alot.
But like one of the other columnists said, he made her uncomfortable, so she made him uncomfortable. You shouldn't be upset that I said that because if he hadn't been being an immature idiot, he wouldn't have had that problem. And incase you didn't notice, I did say that she should talk to him about it and apologize for hurting him, but that she can't take all of the blame for his pain. A slap might have helped too but that was her first thought and she was protecting herself, he should have seen something coming. It's his fault anyway, so he shouldn't try to make her feel bad just because she hit him where it hurts. If he thinks he has the right to get up on her and stick his hand down her pants without any say-so from her, then she has the right to hit him where ever she just so happens to hit him, it really doesn't matter. It might hurt like a bitch, but he'll get over it. It doesn't change the fact that it was his fault she kicked him in the first place.


And it does show that you have respect for yourself because you didn't just stand there and let him do it.


P.S. I think the good kick in the balls made a longer lasting impression than a slap in the face would have.

And if he really is a good friend, he wouldn't stop being your friend or be mad at your for his bad. If he was a true friend he would admit he was out of line and let it go that you kicked him in the nuts, and that he asked for it.
If he was really a true friend he would still want to be your friend and get past that. If not, he is as immature as his act was.

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(Rating: 5) Haha, thanks for telling jack off
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