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I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.

I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.

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So, my bf and I were lying on the bed side by side facing each other and we were hugging etc. with our clothes on and he had an orgasm and I don't know if he had ejaculated. If he had so, could sperm go through clothes? He had boxers and a pair of jeans and I had underwear and shorts.

Then I went to the bathroom and I found that my underwear was wet with discharge. Could it be sperm or just discharge as I was sexually aroused? (link)
Most males ejaculate at the exact time they have an orgasm. So chances are your boyfriend did ejaculate.

It is highly unlikey that any sperm would make it through that many layers, so you're safe! Keep in mind if he touched his semen then touched you without washing his hands, you're not so safe.

Your panties could simply have been the wetness of being sexually aroused; this is completely normal.


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