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I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.

I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.

Gender: Female
Occupation: Counsellor, writer, mother of twins.
Age: 31
Member Since: August 9, 2004
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Last Update: November 5, 2009
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Thank you very much...you must do this a lot. you're very good at it!

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Thanks a lot for your advice :)

Thanks :)

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so should i just not talk to him anymore, because when i try not to like him, then i talk to him, i just end up liking him again..so what should i do now?

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Thanks, Well when me and him bery first had sex a few months ago it use to be like an two hour thing. and know its just a yeah whatever

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Thanks! That makes me feel a lot better.

Hi there, thank you for your thorough advice. I'm not sure how old you are, but you certainly sound very wise certainly good with advice. Many thanks again, I will certainly come back to you for help in the future:)

Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it. :)

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Thank you so much! You do not know how much this helped me!

Thank you so much that really helped. :)

i know.... and thats what's killing me. just the fact that there may be no chance for me to even prove it could work... only thing i would argue about though is that given any other situation and he was any other guy then yes we do have things in common... i understand the boarder between professional and personal... but that is part of it too... i've seen him in both situation. except in the personal he's still clenching to his professionalism, just because as i said it's highly discouraged here... thanks anyway though!

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Thanks so much. I didn't even know about pinching the tip!

actually gave a good idea for my question.

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thank you I really appreciate your answer it actually helps and makes sense again i thank you

Your answer was greatly apprecuated and helped alot. I may contact you soon to ask another question because you seem very well-rounded. Thanks so much.

Wow. Thank you. I wasn't expecting such a thoughful and logn answer. I needed to hear some pros and cons. Thanks again.

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Thank you so much!

Thank you!

I've definitly gotten some good advice from you back in the day. Every once in a while if I don't see your name I wonder if you're around. Then I check out your column and see that you have recently updated. Hah, it's kind of funny to me. A lot of times I confuse myself and think that I actually know people on this site.

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THANKS :]

thanks for the advice. she wants to do it nxt yr

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thanks so much. I just hate thinking of him more depressed than he already has been or killing himself because even though he doesn't see it all of the time there are people that care about him and i don't want to do that to anyone. I would still like him in my life somehow in the future and we've agreed that would happen if we were to break up for some reason but i'm just afraid of what he'll do in the meantime. anyway, again, thanks so much for the advice. it really opened my mind about it.

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thanks... lol i never thought that everyone else has hairs too....

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thanksss but im relle scared i have it cuzz it smellss but its like regualr discharge cuz im late on my period butt i dont wanna tell myy parents i no i shud but i relle cant

thanks for the information about placabo pills. Actually my birth control is effective after 1 week.

Thank you so much for helping. i really made me feel better about going through this. thank you

THANK YOU so much. seriously. your answer was great =) (psychology question) and yeah, it was really helpful. thanks again, and take care =]

Rating changed froma 1 by L2 mod For those who ever went to anger management or a counciling place of any sort, DO they come with those hammer shaped BALLOON THINGIES so you can whack whoever you brought with you (like on tv)?

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Thanks.. That makes more sense to me now :)

I just don't want to mess up! If i do, i know he wont break up with me, because he really care about me. I haven't been getting the feeling were going to yet, but i feel like it's comming soon. And he said the same thing.

Thank you

Thanks a lot! :)

hey thanks ur so nice..i dont think i want to do it anymore thanks :)

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thanks a lot for your information. I know I feel bad, I could describe my feelings using the biggest words and I still would not be able to make others understand. But, I know it is all in my mind so I try not to let it affect me. I might sound as if I dont care but its not true. Its just I am a fighter, I know it is all inside my mind and a matter of perception but still I try to think of the good stuff. By the way, I am not going to punch myself in the stomach, if I gave that idea. I am going to loose the baby in the hospital and after see what happens with my parents. They are my parents, they cant hate me.

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thanx i understand now

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Thanks for taking the time to answer my question. I too, share your beliefs on this topic. Great Work~

You are officially my hero!

Thanks for the inside dope. I reckon you're right, and that he wouldn't date me. I really don't think that I can talk to him about it-I am sure that he would be awkward and embarrased, and feel obliged to terminate our contract. But thanks again!

thank you :)

THANK YOU

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thanks Alison Marie...look, I can rate now! Yeah!!!!! And how come you aren't a moderator? Read the faq's, and become one. You have met all the requirements!- Triple.G http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php read the Faq's, since you don't know the account whoring rule.

thanks. i let the other guy go. now im with my true love =)

i didnt really get what u are saying but thanx for the efort

You are right. Arguing it and trying to stop it won't change anything and I will have to learn that. I should just accept this even though it's not my type of situation I want to be in. And if I can't give him a chance to have something and prove that he's the same person, then it is unfair. Thank you and God bless!

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Thanks Its not really normal for crime where i live which is Maine my parents tell me to stop freaking out about the doors. My mom hasnt done needles her whole life. Just about a year.

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it :]

Phenomenal answer! Thank you so much!

thankyou for your kind and thoughtful answer. It really helped me, and i thankyou for not being mean about it.

Thankyou for taking to time to answer!! I appreciate it!

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Wow you really made me feel better :) thanks!

thanks alot you helped &hearts; kat

Thanks, that was alot of help!

Thanks, that helped :)

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