Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
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So, my bf and I were lying on the bed side by side facing each other and we were hugging etc. with our clothes on and he had an orgasm and I don't know if he had ejaculated. If he had so, could sperm go through clothes? He had boxers and a pair of jeans and I had underwear and shorts.
Then I went to the bathroom and I found that my underwear was wet with discharge. Could it be sperm or just discharge as I was sexually aroused? (link)
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When you say your underwear was wet, were your shorts too? Because if you were sexually aroused, odds are the wetness in your underwear was you. I'm guessing you would have noticed a big wet splotch on your shorts, right? The odds of his semen soaking through his underwear, jeans, your shorts and managed to get your underwear wet is... well, I don't know of any male that can create that much semen.
If it were somehow possible to generate that much semen, for that tiny amount of sperm that would finally arrive at your labia (because most would be held back from all those clothes), it would then have to travel up your vagina (after getting past the pubic hair) and into your uterus and get to the right fallopian tube.
When you have intercourse, the semen is delivered right near your cervix and there's plenty of it. So compare the two and note the differences.
And when men orgasm, that typically means they ejaculated. They mostly go hand in hand.
My breasts hurt before my period too. I once thought I was pregnant because of sore breasts and a late period when I was 19. I'd had sex and was on the pill. Turns out it was just stress.
Again, if you wind up a week late, make a doctor's appointment. If you're sexually active, you can ask for a physical. See about getting the pill and discuss your concerns about having a regular period. I still highly doubt you're pregnant, though. Hang in there.
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Thanks, I'll try not to worry and wait for it
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