Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
She lives with her boyfriend. Life may not have always been good, but it is good now.
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Me: 14/F
Him: 15/M
Okay, I have JUST turned 14 and I have no experience with boys. I've liked boys but I have always wanted to wait to date an all that. Well I really like this boy and I think he could be my first boyfriend. But the problem is I have never made out... Actually, I've never even kissed... This boy seems really sweet and knows I've never had a boyfriend which I hope means he knows that I'm not experienced at all. If he knows this, shouldn't he be uninterested? And if he doesn't, won't he be disappointed? He's pretty experienced and I don't know what he'll expect or if he'll I don't know, not want me? Once he finds out that I don't know what to do... Help? (link)
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14 is really young. It's not a negative thing against you that you're inexperienced. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 16. Everyone's different.
Try not to put so much pressure on yourself. And no, inexperience should not turn a guy off. You are who you are. A male's interest isn't based on what they think a girl's skill level is going to be, but is based on how pretty they think she is, how fun she is to be around, how happy she makes him, how interesting he thinks she is...
Don't worry about experience. It will come in time and with the right boys. Remind yourself that you have chosen not to dive into dating super young (like 12?) and that you're a normal girl who can figure out dating just like everyone else.
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