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Q: ive been with the same guy for 3 years. im 16, almost 17. weve been incepreibal for years and nothing could keep us away from eachother. weve broken up a few times, and evertime we always come crawling back to eachother. but last week, he told me he doesnt feel the same anymore and wants to be friends until he finds out what he wants. this is becasue weve been fighting like crazy, and things arent the same anymore. i love him so much its unreal, and i told him today im ready to be with him, and he said he doesnt want a girlfriend right now and wants to be single. i dont know what to do like i just feel like dying. ive always been a true believer of love, but this is killing me inside. we have the type of relationship where if i go somewhere he gets jealous and vice versa. i guess it came to the point that he cant take it anymore. i really cany stop crying. can anyone relate? i just need advice on anything. i would give the world for him. he said he loves me more than anything in the world. i know he does but hes i guess "doing this for himself" i need comfort, advice, anything. ive been through this so many times but i feel like this is the last draw. ive been thinking about the quote "follow love and it will flee, flee love and it will follow". im a strong believeer in that, but i just dont know if i should move on or not. im sorry if this is long by the way. he said hed let me know if he wants to be with me again. but i dont want to sit here and wait for him. idk. please help me like any advice is fine..
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me and my boyfriend are going through the same thing and i know it hurts. let him have his time but dont give up on him. 3 years and im sure he still loves you he just needs to be redirected. find a way to show him that he does love you to where he can say it and mean it. at the same time make sure he knows you love him. see me and my boyfriend have trust issues and he had a really hard life and hes really insecure and sometimes he thinks i dont love him so just make sure you let him know you do. dont be too much in his face but dont go too far away. if its just the fighting that made him feel this way maybe he just is afraid of being hurt. you guys have been together for a while and you should be able to sit him down and talk it may hurt but if theres tears then its real. just show him hes special and make sure he knows everything.
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yeah, like the thing is, when we fight like this, we both do cry and we know how muchwe love eachother. he has no doubt in his mind i love him and i have no doubt in my mind he loves me. i mean everything happens for a reason, but im not letting go, because i have a feeling we are meant for something. but thanks for your help, i really appreciate it, and i hope everything works out with you and your boyfriend too!
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I am 18. I like giving advice about love, I feel as though i have a clear idea of love in some ways, at the same time as i feel love is not explainable i can explain it, but in weird ways. I also like to give advice about sex questions, although i'm a big hypocrite when it comes to this topic, I always say the right things although i do the wrong ones. there are a few topics that i answer that aren't in my favorite categories but if the question interests me then i answer it. I hope you can trust me and i hope you can appreciate what i can try to do to help you.
- LiseJose
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Gender: Female Occupation: Part Time Tutor / Loving Girlfriend Age: 18 Member Since: April 10, 2009 Answers: 28 Last Update: October 16, 2012 Visitors: 3950
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